Nathan and I had planned a trip to Pittsburgh before the tragedy occurred at the Tree of Life synagogue. We laid flowers for those whose lives were brutally taken from them. What began as a solemn morning was followed by a drive through the Allegheny Cemetery on Halloween where we spotted flocks of crows and deer. Today we drove home and stopped in cute towns like Bridgeville where we saw ducks emerge from a secret swamp and called to cows through the fog.